About Me

Hello everyone , my name is Mark I live in Sydney , Australia .

I first became aware of the pelvic floor in my mid twenties when my years of poor caveman posture and being slumped in front of a computer with giraffe neck posture finally caught up to me.

After spending countless hours in the sitting position I was starting to get an uncomfortable feeling coming from my pelvic floor. It was almost like I was a prize laying hen at the county fair and I was trying to lay a enormous golden egg to claim first prize but it had gotten stuck halfway.

It was a real wake up for me and realization that you really have to treat your body with respect and look after it. The internet being the amazing creation it is I jumped online as I was already on anyway :) and searched on google for pelvic floor dysfunction and pain.

It's always dangerous searching anything on google you can come to wrong conclusions and you can easily misdiagnose an ingrown hair as dengue fever. After sometime I finally started to find some results that made sense. Pelvic Floor Dysfunction.

I never really thought of it consciously but I've always been quite an anxious and nervous person, There is no way I can sit through the blair witch project without jumping out of my seat half a dozen times. I figured this was normal and it is but what wasn't normal was that I was holding all my tension in my pelvic floor and surrounding muscles.

I created a habit of tensing my pelvic floor muscles for every little scare or worry to the point where a tense pelvic floor now became normal and I started to know no different. I am only now starting to release my pelvic floor muscles and really relax and let go.

I did go a bit mad online searching pelvic floor dysfunction and ended up spending hundreds maybe thousands on pelvic floor biofeedback devices , massage tools, books, video classes and it has come down to two things. Making time to perform relaxing breathing exercises to fully let go and allow my pelvic floor to feel a relaxed state and Internal and external trigger point release to bring life back to my already tightened painy muscles.

I hope my little blog helps someone , and your not alone out there even though it can feel that way especially because of the way that pelvic floor dysfunction can take over your life. When you want to feel normal and not be rushing to the bathroom or dreading the thought of sitting down to drive somewhere or having to watch a lord of the rings movie marathon without your donut cushion.

that's me for now , may add more but at the time of posting this I have had about 10 views :P but that won't stop me dont worry

14 comments:

  1. Hi I am also Australian I like your work . I don't have pelvic floor issues myself but am interested in the subject.
    Have you been on pegym it has a lot of info on the pelvic floor in it's premature ejaculation forum.

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  2. Aussie back again ,have you thought on exercising the posterior chain muscles ?

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  3. Hi Anon , yea I have checked out pegym.com it is definitely a wealth of knowledge and I agree with you about the importance of working your posterior muscles. One of the main reasons for pelvic floor dysfunction is poor glute function and hours spent in a sitting position. thanks for the comment

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  4. Hi Mark. My name is Vicks and am in USA. I only recently found your blog. I have all the pelvic dysfunction symptoms and I am desperate for a solution. I hope to receive a reply back from your side. Is there anyway, i can talk to you sometime. I am happy to connect by phone, skype etc if i can get contact details. If you prefer, i can share my contact emai vicksarin@gmail.com

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  5. Mark, i am a petient of this pelvic problem. Is there anyway we can talk on phone, skype etc. I am reachable at vicksarin@ gmail.com

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  6. do you have any other suggestions for a constantly retightening transverse perineum, superficial and deep. I have been in PF therapy for a long time but this muscle is a huge problem. i'm afraid to do the tennis ball exercise. Is thre any way that could make matters worse? Thank you

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  7. Hi Mark, are you still around? Would love to hear about your success treating this, and if you managed to get back to complete health.

    Cheers

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  8. Hey Nick, I definitely am around :) I am hoping to setup a youtube channel soon will be creating a guide on how I go about treating it , exercises, relaxation that sort of thing. have made some revelations recently so looking forward to sharing them. I'm not selling anything either if thats what it sounds like :) hope you are well

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  9. Im waiting impatiently for your youtube channel

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    1. thanks Kafki , hang in there hope your doing ok . I may just return to this blog was there a particular topic you wanted discussed

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  10. Hello Mark . I'm lucky I found this blog. (It is not easily found by google search engine). I would like to know more about your recovery. Many people have the same pelvic problem... Please, continue publishing your findings! (here or in youtube, it doesn't matter). Thanks!

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  11. Greetings. I too have been struggling with this for several years now. No doctor or therapist has made the connection that my chronically tight psoas could be responsible for my pelvic floor tightness (and ensuing outlet constipation & urinary urgency/frequency). I'm also dealing with low back and hip pain on the same side, and I had to get a ton of dental work done this year from grinding my teeth, which is no doubt related. I'm sure these issues started with years of unconscious tightening, then worsened after years of lifting weights. I'm now unable to even engage in light physical activity without all symptoms worsening. I'd be pleased to learn more about your achievements so I could hopefully start improving myself.

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    1. Hey Ludwig, thanks for the comment your so very right the psoas is a huge contributing factor to pelvic floor tighness, I am finding more and more proof of this. I actually had an x-ray done and I could clearly see a tight psoas pulling my pelvis out of alignment which makes it almost impossible to relax the pelvic floor as one side is stretched and the other is not.
      I know what you mean about weight lifting in the past I avoided any form of weight lifting especially one that involved sitting down but I have gotten better lately. hoping to share them more in this blog or start a youtube channel to help spread some healing

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    2. wanted to clarify the xray does not show the psoas muscle :) i can see form the way the spine is being pulled the attachments are clearly where the psoas attaches to the spine and back down to the hip

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